Thanks to one and all for sending in your queries regarding your life changes (and the changes of those in your life), and the increasing awareness of well, ah, awareness! For those who’ve had their questions answered (whether or not those answers have been posted on this page) I thank you for your responses regarding your readings.
Again, I wish to congratulate those who’ve responded to my Q&A readings with a new attitude about their lives. We’re all in this together. Know time like the present and life becomes a gift.
Q–Hello Elaine, you’re so amazing and I love your show. My birthday is January 1, 1963. I’m married 18 years to a very good man. He works hard in advertising and is busy with his job. We don’t have children by choice, but lots of dogs. I have a great job, too. I’m almost embarrassed to say that I am so uncomfortable asking my husband for money. I make my own money and sometimes we make plans to go on a trip or buy something for the house and if my card is maxed out I hesitate to ask him for anything. And he doesn’t offer and that bothers me. We have a small account for the house that I contribute to and then we each have separate accounts. How can I get over this thing? His birthday is February 3, 1962.
A- Margaret, thanks for your email. You’re a Capricorn Sun sign, and a Capricorn Rising sign and a Leo Moon.
Wow, first of all, you need to breathe. I can feel how constricted you are with life. How hard you are on yourself. Dear One please let go of the worry. The relationship you had to your father is crushing you. You loved him dearly but that pedestal you put him on left you feeling way small and insignificant when it comes to relating to men and above all…with receiving!
It’s not that your husband won’t give you money, it’s that you don’t know how to receive it! My goodness. Okay, right now, inhale, exhale….start each day with relaxing your body. Relaxing your corporal punishment you inflict on yourself for not being a man! Yes, I said it. You feel inferior as a woman.
But here’s the great news—you are so very gentle. You are so very considerate of the world. Now it’s time to give yourself that power to love the fact that you ARE love. You are pure conscious love regardless of gender. But let’s focus on removing judgment and worry from your body as your joints and skin and bones are feeling this. Arthritis and fear of movement are beginning in your body. Everyday flex your spiritual muscles…start the day with the idea that you are ENOUGH and stop walking on rice paper around your husband. What do you think would happen if you two discussed a joint bank account? Whether or not you have one at this point is irrelevant. What’s important is the feeling in your body around money and receiving. You are so worth it.
The solar eclipse August 2008, is going to ignite your moon in Leo. You might find that you suddenly wake up within six weeks of July 26 and say, “Hey…what the? Why have I been asking permission to receive? And from my husband? What’s that about? I don’t need anyone’s permission to HAVE.”
In a marriage you bring together your masculine and feminine sides. Your husband simply mirrors the part of you that is not intimate with the self. An Aquarian usually has broader interests in mind and the idea of intimacy is not a familiar one—one on one intimacy is not comfortable for either of you.
Intimacy means, IN TO ME YOU SEE.
My sense is that you lost your father at a young age…or you lost his adoration at a young and fragile age when you needed so much attention. You’re still looking for that attention so give it to yourself! You go girl…I recommend some spiritual counseling asap and not so much talk about what you’re feeling but rather FEELING what you’re feeling and stop restricting flow in your life. Then have that conversation with your husband about how you feel, not what he’s not doing.
The Lunar Eclipse in Aquarius in August, 2008 will bring up his healing about his feminine side and how to share more. Go be wonderful….
Be well, my friend and thanks for your email.